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On the need for intercession

Posted on June 26, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

In Deuteronomy 9, Moses recounts some of the history of the Israelites during the time when he lead them. He recounts how angry he was when they rebelled against God and disregarded the message that Moses shared with them.

While Moses was on the mountain receiving the Law from God, the Israelites were having an idolatrous party and they provoked God to the point where God threatened to kill them all, start over, and build a nation from Moses’ descendants.

How did Moses respond? Moses tells us:

“I fell down like the first time in the presence of the Lord for forty days and forty nights; I did not eat food or drink water because of all the sin you committed, doing what was evil in the Lord’s sight and angering him.”

Deuteronomy 9:18, CSB

The next verse gives the reason why Moses interceded for the Israelites:

“I was afraid of the fierce anger the Lord had directed against you, because he was about to destroy you. But again the Lord listened to me on that occasion.”

Deuteronomy 9:19, CSB

What strikes me is that rather than take God up on his offer to be the head of a new nation, Moses gets on his face before God and pleads for the welfare of the Israelites who have rejected both God and Moses.

Rather than seeking the harm of those who rejected him, Moses pleaded for their welfare. Elsewhere it says of Moses:

“Moses was a very humble man, more so than anyone on the face of the earth.”

Numbers 12:3, CSB

Moses didn’t let his pride get in the way of fulfilling his role as leader of the Israelites.

In my previous post, I spoke of loving enemies. Moses gives us a fine example of how this is done. He loved his enemies by pleading for them before God.

We should do the same. Perhaps a prayer of intercession would be better than an angry post. Perhaps I should be more concerned about a person’s standing before God than what they said to me or about me. Perhaps I should plead for their forgiveness rather than remind God of how evil they are.

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Going with boldness

Posted on June 24, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

“Know therefore today that he who goes over before you as a consuming fire is the Lord your God.”

Deuteronomy 9:3 (ESV)

When the Israelites were to enter the promised land of Canaan the first time, they should have been bold and gone up as instructed. Instead, they carefully evaluated the circumstances and figured out that they were unable to conquer the residents and therefore they resisted Moses’ instructions.

After 40 years of wilderness wandering as a punishment for their unbelief and disobedience, when Moses spoke the words quoted above, the Israelites had a second chance to enter into the land.

Even though the task was still daunting, they were to go with boldness because their God is a consuming fire and God will go before them. Without God’s help and provision, the task would be impossible.

How does this apply in 2024?

I am reminded that God asks us to do all sorts of things that seem impossible to do. I will focus on one.

Jesus commands us to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44). Yes, it is a command, not merely a suggestion.

I cannot do that on my own, I need the Holy Spirit to be working in my heart to even be open to the idea of loving my enemies.

My observation of the rest of humanity demonstrates that others share this difficulty. One must look no further than a typical social media feed to see that most of us, rather than looking for ways to love our enemies are instead looking for justification to hate them.

This ties together for me because our God will not call us to do anything that he will not empower us to do. He is the consuming fire that will make a way for us to accomplish what he commands.

I can love the one who speaks lies about me. I can love the one that knowingly or unknowingly seeks to do me harm. I can do this only because God will empower me to do it.

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Triangular Communication

Posted on June 21, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

In some social systems (families in particular) it is customary to participate in triangular communication. I grew up in such a family and have much experience with this ineffective communication style. In my family, this type of communication was the go-to means of passing on information, especially when there was a need to confront an issue.

Triangular communication is where A wants to get a message to B, but rather than talk to B directly, A sends the message through C. Not only is it inefficient, this type of communication tends to be destructive to all parties concerned.

There are several reasons why triangular communication is destructive. Here are some that come to mind:

  • When the message is passed through an intermediary, the message may be changed in subtle or significant ways. This adds confusion on top of the hurt that already exists.
  • It involves the third party who didn’t need to be in the middle of the dialog. It spreads the hurt to another who should not be involved.
  • It is dismissive of the one who is to receive the message. It communicates the message that the recipient is not worth the effort to contact directly.

So this means of communication is not good and should not be practiced between humans.

But on my bike ride this morning, I thought of one instance where triangular communication is beneficial. That is when the third party is God.

It is never a bad plan to bring the issue to God before confronting another human. Here are some reasons why I hold this opinion:

  • If my anger is inappropriate or out of proportion to the offense, God understands and allows me to vent my frustration in prayer. The Psalms have many instances of this type of prayer. I have an outlet for my anger and frustration that doesn’t damage my human relationships.
  • Only God can change hearts. If the other person is a believer and in relationship with God, I can trust God to convict that person in his own time and in his own way.
  • God loves the other person perfectly and he is the only one who can confront in perfect love. No matter how objective I try to be, my confrontation is always tainted with self-interest.

It is a good idea to spend time in prayer before confronting a friend or family member. While praying, it would be beneficial to ask God to reveal any ways that I have contributed to the perceived offense. My guess is that if I pray in this way, when I do finally confront, I will be much closer to having the kind of love that God has when he confronts.

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A Heart Song

Posted on June 19, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

This afternoon, the following passage stood out for me as I was reading Tim Keller’s, The Meaning of Marriage:

“The Holy Spirit ‘will bring glory to me by taking from what is mine and making it known to you’ (John 16:14). What does that mean?

‘Make known’ translates a Greek word meaning a momentous announcement that rivets attention. The Holy Spirit’s task, then, is to unfold the meaning of Jesus’ person and work to believers in such a way that the glory of it – its infinite importance and beauty – is brought home to the mind and heart. This is why earlier in the letter to the Ephesians, Paul can pray that ‘the eyes of your heart be enlightened’ (Ephesians 1:18), that they might ‘have power . . . to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ . . .’ (Ephesians 3:17-18). The Holy Spirit’s ministry is to take truths about Jesus and make them clear to our minds and real to our hearts – so real that they console and empower and change us at our very center.

To be ‘filled with the Spirit,’ then is to live a life of joy, sometimes quiet, sometimes towering. Truths about God’s glory and Jesus’s saving work are not just believed with the mind but create inner music (Ephesians 5:19) and an inner relish in teh soul. ‘Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ . . .’ (Ephesians 5:19-20). And because teh object of this song is not favorable life circumstances (which can change) but rather the truth and grace of Jesus (which cannot), this heart song does not weaken in times of difficulty.”

– Tim Keller

I know this is a long quote, but it is so good, that I considered it worth reproducing here. I like the last part even though I struggle to live it out.

To paraphrase, because Jesus demonstrates grace toward us and provides a means of dealing with our sin and rebellion, we have a reason to have joy even when our life circumstances are not what we would like them to be.

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