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Humility in church leaders

Posted on March 13, 2020 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

Before removing a fence, a wise man will seek to understand why it was put there in the first place.

When I look at many churches today, I wonder if they have ever heard this proverb. What I see is a forsaking of anything that could be considered traditional coupled with a full embrace of any new method that will promise to fill the pews. The old ideas and boundaries are declared to be out of date and are cast aside as unnecessary.

One such boundary is the need for humility in leaders of the church. Knowing, as we ought to know, that each of us carries the taint of original sin, leaders should welcome the input of others as they speak into our blind spots.

Humility used to be a trait to be admired in church leaders. Pride, after all, has always been considered one of the seven deadly sins.

But, in too many expressions of the local church, the pastor takes on a role that puts him on a pedestal. The life of such a church is centered around the personality of a celebrity pastor.

Knowingly or unknowingly, such a pastor has allowed himself to take on responsibility that ultimately is not his. He has usurped the responsibility for building the church from the true builder, Jesus Christ.

In an attempt at appearing humble while doing this, such a pastor might refer to himself as the “vision caster” or executive leader of the local church. When he does so, this is a signal to me that he has lost sight of his true role as under-shepherd and defender of the flock.

Usually, this usurpation is in response to church growth methodologies that seem to emulate the structures of successful business enterprises. These leaders have chased the shiny lure of “bigger is always better.”

In my experience, every instance of the pastor taking on this type of role, the pastor felt pressured to surround himself with those who agree with him. Thus he works himself into the position where his ideas never get challenged. While this makes it easier to get his ideas implemented, it is usually disastrous for the church. As a result, the “pastor” becomes a dictator rather than a shepherd.

How many examples do we need to see of mega churches falling into disarray when the pastor leaves the ministry due to age or scandal before we figure out that personality centered churches are not a great idea?

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A Confession of Failure

Posted on March 11, 2020 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

I have been an elder or leader in several different churches through the years. I have noticed some common areas where I have experienced failure in that leadership setting. We failed in three key areas which were apparent in how we organized our meetings.

First, we failed to seek God in fervent prayer to lead us through the issues we were about to discuss. Sure, we had an opening and closing prayer, but it was a “bless this meeting” type prayer rather than an “if you don’t lead us we’re all doomed” type prayer. The former is the prayer of those who are confident that they know the direction and the latter is the prayer of those who rightly understand their dependency upon God for anything good to come out of the meeting.

The second failure was that we did not regularly seek the counsel of God by studying the Scripture to speak to the issues before us. We were more about what a consultant said, or what other churches in the denomination were doing. Yes, we would have a devotional, but too seldom, if at all, did we ask the question, “what does Scripture say about this?” Or, “What Biblical principles speak to this question and how should we apply them?”

The third failure was the recognition that it is Jesus’ responsibility to build the church and that we could be confident that Jesus had arranged for all the gifts to be manifested in the various elders in the church. And, because Jesus had ordained those elders to lead his church, there needed to be trust established between the elders.

I’m not singling out any one of the churches, these three things are common themes, even though they should not be.

Even if we think we know the direction to go, if God does not go before us and if we do not acknowledge our complete dependence upon Him for anything good to happen, we may have the appearance of progress, but it will be the appearance only.

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Method vs. Message

Posted on March 9, 2020 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

With the advent of the internet and connected mobile devices, it is likely that most of us are distracted too much of the time. We have instant access to knowledge/facts/data on just about any topic we care to investigate. I can attest that this has had a negative impact on my attention span.

With so many distractions, much of the church has felt the pressure to compete for attention. We have resorted to worship settings with complex lighting, smoke machines, and other effects to produce the feel of a rock concert. Sermons are now expected to have video clips or use pop culture references as illustrations.

Basically the whole worship experience is scripted and has become a very large production geared to attract and keep the attention of a culture that is distracted.

There is nothing wrong with any or all of this as long as we don’t lose sight of the message along the way. We can be so focused on method that we give that method more thought than the message we are called to proclaim. We can be so focused on the Sunday morning experience that we lose sight of day to day discipleship and training.

This is problematic because the church is called to make disciples, while “teaching them to observe all that I commanded you” (Matthew 28:20).

The root meaning of the word disciple is to learn. Therefore, a disciple is fundamentally a student. The original disciples learned from Jesus by living with him 24/7 for several years. We learn from Jesus through study of the Bible.

As individuals we often struggle with finding balance in our lives. As churches we aparently share that struggle. We struggle with finding the balance between method and message.

If we focus exclusively on the method, we might focus too much on the experience and the performance on a Sunday. Indeed, in some “seeker-sensitive” churches I have attended, the Gospel was not readily discernible in either the music or the sermon.

At the other extreme, we can focus so much on the message without sufficient attention to the method of delivery. This can make the worship experience seem dry and lifeless.

One extreme provides a pep talk with little substance. The other extreme provides a lecture that provides little encouragement for real life.

My point in writing this is that as church leaders, we need to hold these in tension and always seek to find balance.

I would think that a good place to start is to observe how Jesus did ministry as recorded in the gospels. The disciples were many things, but bored was not one of them. Jesus confronted the culture around him when necessary but he also was appealing to those who were not accepted by the religious establishment.

We have a lot to learn . . .

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On discernment ministries

Posted on February 28, 2020 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

I recently read a post by a pastor who, with a broad brush, condemned all “discernment ministries” as being unloving and promoting disunity in the church.

The concern is that such statements could be construed as saying that it is wrong to exercise discernment. Are we to take the position that anyone who claims his teaching is Biblical and can cite a few verses to support their teaching should be accepted? Are we to remove all theological boundaries as to what is in accord with Scripture?

I think the answer to both these questions is an emphatic “No!”. Note what the Apostle Paul tells his Philippian readers:

“And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”

Philippians 1:9-11 (ESV) (Emphasis Added)

How is it that we are encouraged by Paul to be discerning yet discernment is wrong and promotes disunity? The fact that we are to approve what is excellent implies that we need to reject what is not.

There are other instances of Scripture encouraging us to seek out the truth and reject teachings that do not align with Scripture. It is the responsibility of elders to fulfill this function and thus protect the church from error.

For example, Paul gives this instruction to Timothy:

“As I urged you when I was going to Macedonia, remain at Ephesus so that you may charge certain persons not to teach any different doctrine, nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies, which promote speculations rather than the stewardship from God that is by faith.”

1 Timothy 1:3-5 (ESV)

I think it would be difficult to build a case that it is acceptable for Timothy to confront wrong teaching but it is not acceptable for leaders today. If it is the right thing for Timothy to do, it is also the right thing for us to do.

I am not writing this as an endorsement of all that is on the internet with regard to discernment or “calling out” of church leaders. Too often statements are taken out of context and sensationalized to mean something that the original speaker did not intend.

Another error of “discernment ministries” is that they often use guilt by association. It is not right to condemn someone solely on the basis of who they hang out with. A cursory reading of the Gospels reveals that this was a favorite tactic of the Pharisees, who were rightly condemned for using it.

The third error of some discernment ministries is that they resort to ad hominem attacks rather than appropriately detailing how a particular teaching is contrary to Scripture. There is nothing wrong with challenging an idea but we should do it in a loving way and not attack the person.

While we should be careful before condemning anyone, when there is someone promoting error in the church, it needs to be addressed.

The confrontation should be done in a way that seeks restoration of the one who is in error. It should be done without contempt toward the person who is in error. But if bad theology is being taught, it is important to show why it is wrong. Such teaching needs to be addressed.

My last point is that true, Biblical, discernment seeks the best for everyone, even the one in error.

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