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The Gospel according to Elmore James

Posted on September 29, 2015 Written by Mark McIntyre 1 Comment

Elmore JamesWhile driving to work this morning a version of “It Hurts Me Too” came on the radio. As I considered the lyrics, I saw a parallel to Scripture that I had not seen before. So, to Google I turned to find the lyrics. Here they are, for those who are not familiar with the song:

You said you was hurting, you almost lost your mind,
Now the man you love, he hurts you all the time.
But when things go wrong, go wrong with you,
It hurts me, too.

You love him more, when you should love him less.
I pick up behind him, and take his mess.
But when things go wrong, go wrong with you,
It hurts me, too.

He love another woman, yes I love you,
But you love him, and stick to him like glue.
When things go wrong, go wrong with you,
It hurts me, too.

Now he better leave you, or you better put him down.
No, I won’t stand, to see you pushed around.
But when things go wrong, go wrong with you,
It hurts me, too.

I listened to several versions of the song; it has been recorded many times by many people. But my favorite version is by Elmore James. If you’ve never heard his version of it, here it is on Youtube:

https://youtu.be/WAa-lCowVMY?list=FLUG4FLxRZV3QaUaWVohYc9w

This song reminds me of the book of Hosea, where God uses a faithful husband to an unfaithful woman to illustrate his relationship with the Nation of Israel. Israel had wandered away and cheated on her God, a God who still cared. Israel reaped the consequences of her infidelity.Bad things happened as a result of her disobedience. But can you imagine God saying in response, “it hurts me too”?

We are like that. We snub the God who loves us and wants the best for us. We walk away from him leaving him to walk behind us and “take our mess.” It was to take our mess that Jesus came and went to the Cross.

So the next time you hear a version of “It Hurts Me Too” think of Jesus as the one who came to take our mess and make it into something beautiful.

 

Filed Under: Christianity and Culture

Before you speak

Posted on September 27, 2015 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

3 QuestionsAt a men’s event I recently attended, one of the speakers listed three questions to ask yourself before you speak. These are particularly good questions to ask when the conversation contains some tension. Because i found them helpful, thought I would share them here.

The three questions to ask yourself before speaking are:

  1. Is it true?
  2. Is it necessary?
  3. Is it kind?

Is it True?

Are you being accurate in what you are saying? Are you providing the facts in the matter at hand? Before you respond, make sure that you understand the situation and avoid saying anything that is not completely true.

Is it necessary?

When interacting with people, there are things that we know are true, but it is not necessary for us to say them. Is what you are going to say for the benefit of the one hearing it? If it is not going to benefit the other person, it is probably better off left unsaid. Wisdom is needed to know what should be said and when it is appropriate to say it.

Is it kind?

If what you are going to say is true, and it is necessary to say it, can you say it in a kind way? John described Jesus as being “full of grace and truth” (John 1:14). We should strive to be like Jesus in this. Paul tells us to speak the truth in love (Eph. 4:15). Whatever we say should be loving and kind.

How much better would this world be if everyone thought through these questions before speaking. How much better would our families, church and places of work be if we did this consistently?

We have all said things which cause us to wish for a rewind button. My hope in sharing these questions is that by applying them consistently we might increase the time between statements that we later regret.

 

Filed Under: Communication Skills

A check that won’t bounce

Posted on September 26, 2015 Written by Mark McIntyre 2 Comments

The Apostle Paul tells us in Romans 1:4 that Jesus was declared “the Son of God with power by the resurrection from the dead” He did not become the Son of God as a result of the resurrection. Rather, the resurrection demonstrated the fact that Jesus was indeed the Son of God.

During a recent Bible study where we were discussing the resurrection of Jesus I thought of the analogy of writing a check. Jesus claimed to have power over death, he claimed that he would die and then rise again. Using the analogy of writing a check, Jesus wrote a large check to us when he promised that we could be raised to new life.

The analogy of a check

Blank CheckIf I wrote you a check for a million dollars and you went to the bank to cash it, after the branch manager stopped laughing, he would inform you that I do not have sufficient funds to cover the check. By writing that check, I would have made a promise that I could not keep.

Now, if Bill Gates wrote that check, the story would have a different ending. He could make such a promise because he has the ability to keep the promise that the check represents

The fact that Jesus did indeed rise from the dead proves that he had sufficient funds to cover that check. He made a promise and proved that he has the ability to keep that promise.

I’ve heard Ravi Zacharias make the point on several occasions that Jesus could have taken the easy route and promised that he would rise in a spiritual sense. Whether or not anyone rises spiritually is not a subject for empirical verification. There would have been no opportunity to falsify Jesus’ claim.

Jesus did not say he would rise spiritually, he promised that he would rise physically. If, he would not have actually done so, all of his promises and teaching would then become suspect. All the enemies of Christ had to do was present a body and Christianity would never have gotten a start.

Why this matters

If (since) Jesus proved his mastery over death, we can live with a different perspective as we meander through this life. At the end of his discussion of the resurrection and its importance in 1 Corinthians 15, Paul writes:

“O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?” The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.” (1 Corinthians 15:55–58, ESV)

As a result of this knowledge we are to be steadfast. We are to be immovable. Sure, we are not always this way, but when we are not, it is because we have lost sight of who God is and what he has promised to do for us.

The funds to cover the check have been in the bank waiting.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection Tagged With: check, immovable, promise, resurrection, steadfast

Joy is a life vest

Posted on September 24, 2015 Written by Mark McIntyre 1 Comment

JoyJoy is like a life vest. A life vest does not keep you out of the waves, but keeps the waves from overwhelming you.

Happiness depends on avoiding a difficulty, but joy is deeper than happiness. One can infer from the word “happy” that it is dependent upon circumstances for the good feeling. The word happenstance comes from the same root. Happiness depends on what happens to us. So, to be happy, I need life to go well right now.

Joy, on the other hand, comes from a long-term view and an understanding that it all comes out well in the end. This is why Paul, in 2 Corinthians 7:4, can write:

In all our affliction, I am overflowing with joy.

What I’m learning is that joy does not keep you from the trial, but it can sustain you through the trial.

For the Christian, joy is not rooted in some vague, self-generated sense of well being. Joy is rooted in the character of God and an understanding that Jesus has made a provision for us. Jesus makes a way through the trial, reminding us that it is God  who is at work “to will and to work for his good pleasure” (Phil. 2:13).

This is not a pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps self-will, nor is it a Pollyanna-like refusal to take the trial seriously. Joy is realistic about the difficulty and its consequences. but not willing to let the difficulty have the last say.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be spared from a trial; only a masochist would actually want to suffer. But there is everything right with asking God to show you how to have joy in the midst of the difficulty.

Why ask God for this? The best reason is that Paul tells us that joy is one aspect of the fruit of the Spirit. Joy is something that God wants to produce in us. When we pray to receive joy, we are asking for something that we know is according to God’s will.

Because we are broken people living in a broken world, there are only three categories of people:

  1. Those who have come out of a trial
  2. Those that are in a trial
  3. Those are moving into a trial

So, in the likely event of a water landing . . . put on joy as your life vest to keep you above the waves.

 

Filed Under: Bible Reflection Tagged With: difficulty, fruit, joy, Spirit, suffer, trial

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