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Henry Cloud on Failure

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In reading his book Changes that Heal, I ran across this statement by Henry Cloud:

“Our failures do not surprise [God]. If they surprise us, it is only because we have too high an opinion of ourselves.”

What else can I say?

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He will deliver

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These verses are on my mind as I write this post:

“In my distress I called to the Lord, and he answered me. Deliver me, O Lord, from lying lips, from a deceitful tongue.”

Psalm 120:1–2, ESV

The psalmist starts with the understanding that his prayer is heard. What is his prayer?

His prayer is to be delivered from lying lips and a deceitful tongue.

We need to look no further than the playground of our youth to find examples of lying lips and deceitful tongues. It seems that there is always someone nearby who uses their words to hurt rather than heal. As we move into adulthood, we find people at work, and unfortunately, in the church who practice hurtful speech. It is even worse when the deceit comes from a family member or close friend.

My understanding of what it means to be delivered from them has morphed recently. Nowhere in Scripture are we promised that we will not encounter people who lie and practice deceit. People say things that hurt us. Jesus went to the cross at the hands of such people.

But we are delivered from their power to make us respond in an inappropriate way. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, we can acknowledge the untruth in their speech, we can even acknowledge the hurt that it causes, without lashing out or being overwhelmed or destroyed in the process.

Be angry (acknowledge the hurt) but do not sin (respond inappropriately). God will deliver you from the lies and deceit.

I bet you will have an opportunity to practice this today.

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Welcome to the club

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“Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners.”

Mark 2:17 (ESV)

If there is one thing that should distinguish the Christian church, it should be an open admission of our need for a Savior. We are the people that know that we are sick and in need of healing.

Therefore, the church is the one place where it should be acceptable to admit that you don’t live up to your own standard. The church should be the one place where we openly acknowledge that we don’t have everything together. The church is the one place where we should be able to admit that we don’t measure up.

Our shortcomings are painfully obvious to everyone around us, so there is really no downside to making the admission.

Yet, so much of my church life has been one of inherent dishonesty both on my part and the part of those around me.

To corroborate this, just ask yourself what you normally say or hear when the question “how are you?” is asked.

The standard answer is “great” or “fine” or the very spiritual-sounding answer, “I’m doing better than I deserve” or even, “great by the grace of God.”

There is nothing wrong with these responses if that is really the case. But on an average Sunday, I suspect that not everyone in the congregation is doing “fine” or “great.” Some just had an argument with their spouse on the way to church. Some just yelled at their kids for one reason or another. Some have had trouble at work. Some have had difficulty with aging parents. Some have trauma from difficult parents. The list of problematic things in a fallen world is endless.

I’m not saying that we need to tell everyone every problem we’ve had (they have enough of their own), but we do need to be honest that sometimes life gets us down and we need people around us to pick us up.

Also, we need to be honest that we don’t respond well in every difficult situation. We mess up. We hurt people. We say the wrong thing. The list of ways we fail is also endless.

But we need to be people who, like Jesus, are full of grace and truth. We need to give and receive grace for failures while being honest about them.

So, if you are a sinner, welcome to the club. If you feel that you fail more than succeed, welcome to the club. If you know that you don’t have your act together, welcome to the club.

Jesus accepts you and so should we.

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Beware the Leaven

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In my Bible reading, I read this verse and wanted to dig deeper to understand the meaning of the verse.

Jesus said to them, “Watch and beware of the leaven of the Pharisees and Sadducees.”

Matthew 16:6, ESV

During my investigation, I found this paragraph which was written by William Campbell in his commentary on Mark 8:15 which is a parallel passage:

“What then is the special point in view in warning against the leaven of these sects? Their two systems were far apart; and yet they were then and have been since, the two chief sources of danger to the Church. Formalism on the one hand, and rationalism on the other, which are but other names for the leaven of the Pharisees and of the Sadducees, have in every age been the Church’s insidious enemies; and against these Jesus here raises his voice in warning to his church. The Pharisees added to the divinely appointed ceremonies, till all their religion consisted in a punctillious observance of outward forms. The Sadducees were willingly to admit so much of religious belief and practice as they conceived to be consistent with reason, that is, with the Epicurean philosophy of Greece and Rome which they embraced. The first of these evil influences, formalism, early pervaded the church of Rome, and expelled spirituality from this powerful Christian organization. The latter, rationalism, pervaded the reformed churches of the continent of Europe, and for more than a century spread through them spiritual apathy and death. And the church still has, on the one hand, those who substitute trifling ceremonial observances, or a pompous ritual, for the pure gospel; and on the other hand, those who, refusing the inspired word as their infallible guide, square all religious truth to the deductions, often mere false dogmas, of their own scientific or philosophic research. There is one antidote to both these poisons; it is a faithful adherence to the inspired word of God as the only infallible rule of faith and practice.”

William Campbell (1881)

Campbell’s commentary was published in 1881 but we see the same two errors playing out today.

On the one hand, we have the dead orthodoxy and formalized religion in which I grew up where there is strict adherence to a rigid code of behavior. In this error, as long as the outward regulations are observed, everything is supposed to be okay. There is assumed to be a rule for everything. This is the error of the Pharisees.

The problem is that rules do not generate true spirituality because rule-keeping reduces Christianity to a series of checks-in-boxes. Rule-keeping stifles the relational nature of true Christianity which is summed up in the two great commands to love God and love one’s neighbor.

I have also been in churches that fall into the other error, that of the Sadducees. As Campbell points out above, this is the error of those who question the authority of Scripture and succumb to whatever is the prevailing sentiment of the day.

The error of the Pharisees is easier to diagnose because its rigidity gives it away.

The error of the Sadducees, on the other hand, is a bit more sneaky, in my observance. Many of the “seeker-sensitive” churches fall into this trap.

In an effort to be culturally relevant, the gospel can be watered down or lost completely. It certainly is not popular today to announce in public that all of us are flawed and in need of a savior. It is not popular today to preach that all of our social ills are because all of us are sinful.

Take, for example, the current trend in churches to emphasize what is termed “social justice.”

It’s not that I don’t think that injustice is happening (it is), my problem with much of this teaching is that it implies that there are physical solutions to spiritual problems.

Every time there is an injustice performed it is a violation of the two great commands to love God and love our neighbor. At the root of these violations are selfishness and pride. The only antidote to this is to repent and turn to Christ as the one who can forgive our sin and empower us to live differently. Because we all violate the two great commands, we all need to repent on a moment-by-moment basis.

As Christians, we believe that we need the input of Scripture to reveal the ways we demonstrate a lack of love for God and neighbor. It is not that the seeker-sensitive churches openly deny the authority of Scripture, they relegate that authority as secondary to current cultural norms.

When we imply that one group of people needs repentance more than another group, then we have lost the true gospel. Both the Pharisees and the Sadducees fall into this trap, the trap of thinking that they are superior to those not in their group.

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