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Coining a new term – Sociopastor

Posted on July 24, 2021 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

A vast majority of pastors genuinely care for the people they serve. They give sacrificially of their time and resources to provide that care. I applaud them and am grateful for their continued obedience to the master shepherd as they seek to fulfill their calling.

But not all pastors have such integrity.

I get angry when I see what a few “pastors” have done to abuse their sheep. A pastor is supposed to be a shepherd, the one who is to care for the sheep, not eat them. I put the word pastor in quotes because while these few have the title, they do not assume the responsibility of caring for those to whom they are to minister.

As I reflected on one particular situation that has caused me so much heartache, the term “sociopath” came to mind. I did a brief search on the internet to better understand the term and found a website that lists these characteristics of a sociopath:

  • A lack of empathy for others
  • Little to no genuine remorse
  • The manipulation of other people
  • Lying and deceit
  • A sense of superiority over others
  • Little to no regard for right or wrong
  • The belief that rules do not apply to them
  • Getting into legal trouble or a little regard for the law
  • A lack of responsibility or engaging in irresponsible behaviors
  • Aggression or hostility
  • The exploitation of other people
  • Substance use

Sure, there are times when any one of us could be accused of possessing some of these traits. We all struggle with our sinful nature as Paul reminds us in Romans 7. But when multiple characteristics from this list are repeatedly found in a single person, then the label may begin to apply.

Why do we think a good outcome will be obtained when we put someone with any of these traits in charge? Do we really need someone who will drive his agenda for the organization so hard that there is no concern for the individual members?

We expect this behavior from corporate CEOs. CEOs take charge and make what they feel are necessary changes with no sympathy for the people whose jobs are eliminated or the families that are disrupted by the “productivity gains” that they implement. They slash payrolls and budgets with no apparent concern for the lives they put in disarray. Many CEOs are focused solely on the bottom line; people do not matter to them.

But, have we gone so far down the path of emulating corporate America in the church that we think that we should look for a pastor who uses the methods of such a CEO to lead the church?

In the situation that has caused me heartache, a “pastor” was hired who was unwilling to be examined by the denominational officials that are ordained to provide oversight to the congregation. That should have been the first clue that something was very wrong. But, alas, the elders turned a blind eye to his aversion to accountability and hired him anyway because they thought he possessed organizational ability and experience.

Subsequent decisions made by this “pastor” showed little or no remorse as to the consequences of his decisions suffered by the congregation. I have spoken with many people that have left this church. Not only are they leaving, they are leaving with damage having been done to their souls. Some have expressed reluctance to ever join an organized church again after the way they were treated by this “pastor” and those who enabled him.

During this reflection, I coined a new term to identify this type of church leader. That term is “sociopastor.” This is a term for a pastor that is so focused on his agenda for the church organization that he does damage to the people he is charged to care for.

A sociopastor will use any means necessary to get his agenda implemented. He will slander those who disagree with him to reduce their credibility and influence. He will drive away anyone on staff who is perceived to be a threat. He will pursue back-room politics rather than openly discuss the issues with the elder board. He will seek to stack the elder board with those who agree with his agenda. He will function as if denominational standards do not apply to him because he is above such accountability. He will attempt to ruin the reputation of anyone who opposes him. He will simper and smile at the camera but show his fangs to anyone who does not support him.

Why would anyone in church leadership think that this is OK?

Have we forgotten that Paul addressed the qualifications for church leadership in 1 Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 1:5-9? Have we forgotten that Paul calls elders to build up the people, not destroy them (Ephesians 4:11-14)? Have we forgotten that Paul warned the Ephesian elders against wolves that come to harass the flock and remind the elders of their duty to protect the flock (Acts 20:28-35)?

Yup, at times church leaders do seem to forget.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection, Church Leadership

Don’t bet against the church

Posted on June 24, 2021 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

Even a casual observer of church history should be able to notice that the church (speaking of the universal church, not a particular sect or denomination) has gone through ups and downs over the years. Those of us who feel that we are seeing the church in one of the down periods can become overwhelmed by what we see around us.

But we can be encouraged by history. For example, in spite of all the negative things that were happening in the organized church of the early 16th Century (and there were plenty of them), God brought about the reformation through Luther and the other reformers.

I have written about many of the frustrating things I’ve seen in churches over the last few years. But I am reminded that despite the misguided, or perhaps even evil, plans that leaders sometimes inflict upon their congregations, God still shows his ability to build the church.

I need to constantly remind myself that the Church is not an organization. The Church is not a building. The Church is made up of all of us who have been made alive in Christ Jesus, no matter how imperfectly we behave at any given moment.

I recently saw an article on the internet that claimed abandoned church buildings as evidence of the death of the church. Borrowing from Mark Twain, reports of the death of the church have been greatly exaggerated. As a one of my favorite teachers used to say, “the Church has always outlived her pallbearers.”

Keep in mind that Jesus is the one that proclaimed his authority to build the church and then backed it up by rising from the dead. He will build his church and the gates of hell will not prevail.

Bottom line is, don’t bet against the church, the true church made up of true believers. God will continue to call people into relationship with himself, no matter who is at the helm of the religious organizations that call themselves churches.

The point of this ramble is to say that when I take my eyes off the people that are damaging the organization that we call the church, I become open to see the work that God is doing around me in individuals that are seeking God.

God continues to be at work and we can be encouraged as we see his handiwork in spite of incompetence and antagonism.

We can indeed be encouraged.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection

Listen for the whisper

Posted on June 22, 2021 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

1 Kings 19 records the time when the prophet Elijah hit rock bottom. It got so bad that Elijah hid in a cave, thinking he was the only worshipper of God left.

God confronted Elijah and suggested he go out to “stand on the mountain in the LORD’s presence.”

The author of 1 Kings records what happened next:

At that moment, the Lord passed by. A great and mighty wind was tearing at the mountains and was shattering cliffs before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 After the earthquake there was a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire there was a voice, a soft whisper. 13 When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave.

1 Kings 19:11–13 (CSB)

I find this instructive because I have spent so much time in churches where we sought to recreate the wind, earthquake, and fire rather than listen for the whisper. We want pizzazz in our worship. We want lights and guitar solos and whatever else we can get to make Sunday seem special. We work hard to make the music bold and the preaching catchy and polished. We want to have a huge experience of God on a Sunday morning.

Maybe God is telling us through Elijah’s experience that we are looking for the wrong things and not putting ourselves in the proper position to hear from God.

Instead of following the latest church growth fad, perhaps we declare a day of fast for our local church while asking God what he wants us to do.

Maybe we should unplug the guitars and video screens and have a quieter worship experience. Maybe we should read Scripture in our Sunday service and do more listening than speaking. Maybe we should collectively search the Scriptures for the answers to the problems around us.

Maybe we are being called to ditch the big buildings and big budgets to focus on being obedient to the call of God.

Admittedly, I don’t have answers to what the church in 2021 should look like. I don’t know what any particular congregation should do in response to their situation. But I think that much of what passes for evangelical practice is not having the desired effect. We seem to be making theological consumers rather than disciples.

Perhaps we are not listening for that whisper that God used to reveal himself to Elijah. It was in the whisper, not the louder, more noticeable events that Elijah heard the voice of God. Maybe we’re impressed by the wrong things.

Let’s be open to hearing that whisper so that we, individually and collectively, can hear the voice of God to be sure that we are following his lead and not blazing our own trail.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection

Putting first things first

Posted on June 20, 2021 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

I have been struggling to understand why I am frustrated with 21st Century “Woke” Christianity. After all, who is not for justice? Who thinks that racism is a good idea?

Why then do alarm bells go off in my head when a church starts focusing on what they term “social justice”?

Two reasons come to mind.

The first is that the preaching often focuses on symptoms rather than the core problem. I recently ran across this paragraph by Timothy Keller:

“Since the garden, we live in a world filled with suffering, disease, poverty, racism, natural disasters, war, aging, and death – and it all stems from the wrath and curse of God on the world. The world is out of joint, and we need to be rescued. But the root of our problem is not these ‘horizontal’ relationships, though they are often the most obvious; it is our ‘vertical’ relationship with God. All human problems are ultimately symptoms, and our separation from God is the cause. The reason for all the misery – all the effects of the curse – is that we are not reconciled to God.”

Timothy Keller in Center Church

As Keller points out, all the injustice in the world is ultimately because our relationship with God is broken and we are separated from God. Ultimately, the only way for true justice to be restored is for every person to be reconciled to God through Jesus Christ. This is the core message that the church is tasked with proclaiming.

But unfortunately, this message is not always clear when preachers proclaim current theories of how social justice will be achieved. We have churches that embrace theories that are more in line with Karl Marx than Jesus Christ.

In Matthew 22:37-40, Jesus summarized the teaching of Scripture into two great commands. The first is that we should love God with our entire being. The fact that we fail in this command produces all the ills that plague our society. Any preaching that does not tie the problems around us to our failure to satisfy this command is not Christian preaching.

My second reason for discomfort with social justice preaching is that there is usually selectivity in the proclamation of what needs to be done for justice to take place.

The second great command in the passage cited above is that we are to love our neighbor as ourselves. In the story of the Good Samaritan, Jesus emphasized that everyone we come in contact with is our neighbor. There is no separation by race, age, gender or birth status allowed in the application of this command.

We do not have the latitude to focus only on what the culture deems important. We need to be holistic in how we apply this command. Are we concerned about all forms of injustice? I can think of many forms of injustice in our society but I don’t hear all of them mentioned in “social justice” preaching.

Are we responding to the frenzy created by the media (after all creating frenzy is their purpose) or are preaching the good news of Jesus Christ? We cannot be selective as to who is to receive justice.

Any preaching and teaching in the church that does not ultimately point to the Cross of Jesus Christ as the remedy is not Christian preaching.

Without the regeneration that is made possible by our relationship with Christ, we cannot make any progress at all on fulfilling the two great commands. The gospel (good news) is that in Christ, restoration of our vertical relationship can be accomplished.

On the basis of a restored vertical relationship, the horizontal relationships can also be restored. That message needs to be heard. That is the first thing that needs to be first.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection

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