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Bob has been the lead pastor at Covenant Church in Doylestown, PA since 2002. He thinks that being a pastor is the greatest job in the world because he gets to work with great people and spend time studying the greatest book.

Out-Live, Out-Last, Out-Love

Posted on July 6, 2015 Written by Bob Myers 2 Comments

This article is a guest post by Bob Myers written for the weekly newsletter of Covenant Church in Doylestown. I thought it worth sharing and have copied it in its entirety.

Supreme CourtThe decision by the Supreme Court to find that gay-marriage is a constitutional right puts Bible-believing Christians on the defensive.

It’s always better to be known by what you’re for rather than what you’re against. If we were merely a political organization, it would be time to shift our stance. But our stance is derived from revelation. We didn’t make up our foundational belief about a murdered Galilean rising from the dead. We didn’t make up the stuff about His promise to return on a white horse, riding on a cloud. We also didn’t make up the stuff about how we should live.

We’re for recovery, but against addictions. We’re for honest face to face conversations, but we’re against gossip. We’re for delicious food, but against gluttony. We’re for repentance, but against sin.

But what if we live in a world where there seems to be more sinning than repentance, more addiction than recovery, and more gossip than facts?

We’re for sex, but against all forms of immorality.

But what if there’s more championing of immorality than healthy sex?

From talking with many of you, I know that this article is going to be read by people who hold to a wide variety of viewpoints. We’re a diverse church community because people from every kind of background have found that Jesus is present at Covenant, and He meets us all right where He finds us. It should be no secret that Covenant Church welcomes all people, but by conviction based on scripture, we hold to the view that the only marriage found in scripture is between one man, one woman, bound together by sacred marriage.

This view that is taught by all the major religions and historically has been held by every Christian movement is now so controversial that it can destroy polite conversation. So, how do we keep the conversation focused on Jesus? We shouldn’t cower or even stutter at stating what the Christian position is on any issue. Our focus should be on the things that haven’t changed, can never change, and will always remain true. Our timeless message holds fast to the following universal truths for all times, cultures, and people.

  • Everyone reflects God’s image and is endowed with worth.
  • Everyone is broken, fallen, and rebellious. Sin is equally distributed across humanity, starting with me.
  • Redemption is possible for everyone.
  • The terms of redemption are coming to Christ.
  • Coming to Christ means that you come as you are, but don’t stay as you are. It begins by expressing repentance and faith.
  • It’s OK to not be OK, but if you profess that Christ now lives in you, it’s not OK to stay that way.

We’re not mad at anyone. Our primary message is never morality. Our message is that Jesus Christ is who He said He is. If Jesus is not Lord, then we don’t have to pay attention to anything He says. The Apostles didn’t show a whiff of interest in arguing over moral principles with non-believers. They proclaimed Christ. Those who embraced Jesus as LORD were then helped, instructed, and persuaded to live differently.

We need to out-live, and out-last, and out-love the current fads and whims of culture. Love has to win out in our message and our mission. If I owned a bakery, I’d bake a cake for gay sinners, the same way I would for straight sinners.

But, “Love does NOT win” when Christians:

  1. Fail to tell people the truth with humility and grace;
  2. Cheer people on as they run headlong over a cliff to their destruction;
  3. Celebrate people’s freedom to destroy themselves;
  4. Stop believing that God knows what is best for people;
  5. Doubt God’s power and plan to transform sinners–starting with me–into new creatures.
    Christians are called to share the good news of the transforming power of the Gospel. Yes, that is different from holier-than-thou finger pointing. But it’s also different from rejoicing at people’s sudden freedom to become more enslaved.

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Boldly Broadcasting

Posted on March 3, 2014 Written by Bob Myers 2 Comments

This is repost of a news letter article written by Bob Myers, the lead pastor at the church I attend. I thought it worth sharing with you so I asked permission to use it as a guest post. If you are interested in becoming a guest author, please see the guest post guidelines and use the Attempts At Honesty contact form.

BroadcastingAre you boldly broadcasting?  By that, are you using the unique God-given opportunities in front of you?

I believe that everywhere Jesus went He found a way to make an impact on a man, woman, or child.  Although the gospel writers make it clear that He preached and taught multitudes, it’s amazing how much of the gospels focuses on one on one encounters with Jesus that you and I can easily identify with and replicate.

Here’s some tests for whether we’re boldly broadcasting.

Inventory your interactions.  How many people have been in your home in the past two months? How many of them have been part of your same church, or have been Christians compared to how many non-Christians? If you go out to restaurants, how many of those who sat at your table are not yet believers? Jesus went out to eat with non-believers a lot, so much so that He was criticized for dissing Israel.  Are you like Him in this? Take a little bit of your tithe and treat a non-Christian to a lunch out.  In the conversation, work on understanding the person and listening first. Take the challenge question I gave you last week in the sermon on compassion. Find out what it’s like to be them.  Ask them, “So, what’s it like to be you?”. Ask them with a curious mind and an open heart.  You’ll be a better image bearer of Jesus.  And as Dale Carnegie said, A person who asks questions and listens to the answers is regarded by most people  as an incredibly interesting conversationalist.

Social Media:  If you do Facebook and Twitter, and I think many of you should do it, ought to do it, and can do it being salt and light, you should have a bias towards people who don’t share your faith.  What I mean is, interact with them positively, affirmatively, and in a winsome and inviting way. Each Saturday on Facebook I try to share a preview of what our worship service is going to be. If you’re on Facebook, yes, you should “like” this, but you should also share  this, which re-broadcasts it to your network of friends.   If you’re on twitter, you should interact with non-Christian tweeters in a winsome way. This doesn’t mean we tweet Bible verses constantly. That’s talking at people.  But twitter allows you to dialogue, to show curiosity and compassion for other people. And I would encourage you to tweet on the broad subject matters that interest you.  I have some Facebook friends who are atheists and from other religions. I make sure I especially communicate interest and graciousness to them. I “unsubscribed” from a tweeter who only posted on a subject that had no interest for me. But I love how twitter can open up subjects and worlds that I otherwise knew nothing about, but can begin to understand and appreciate it.

Evaluate your intake and output.   If you have been a Christian less than five years, you may want to attend more than one Bible study to “catch up” on all that you might have missed before.  But if you’ve been a Christian for more than five years, generally, you should not be regularly coming to more than one Bible study unless you’re bringing someone, babysitting for someone, or leading the study itself.   If you’ve been in multiple Bible studies for more than five years, stop attending more than one Bible study, drop it and attend a neighborhood book club discussion of some secular book, or join a community interest club of some kind.   You’ll find it revolutionary to your faith and life.  Your prayer life will probably grow.  And most of all, you’ll be more like Jesus in how you live and interact.

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