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How Long, O Lord?

Posted on October 27, 2013 Written by Mark McIntyre 14 Comments

AbandonedHow long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever?
How long will You hide Your face from me?
How long shall I take counsel in my soul,
Having sorrow in my heart all the day?
How long will my enemy be exalted over me? (Psalm 13:1-2)

l don’t have anyone trying to kill me. But I do have times when l wonder if God is listening or if he cares. I assume that this is true of all Christians. The tragedy is that on any given Sunday, in any given church, it is unlikely that you will find anyone who shows signs of questioning God’s concern for them. Too often we stuff down our doubts and feelings of frustration and paste on our “spiritual” smile and pretend that everything is OK.

You may have noticed that I have not posted much in the last few weeks. Life has been chaotic, or at least more chaotic than normal.  Nothing really bad has happened to me personally but the stuff happening around me has stripped away any illusion of control that I might have had. It is too easy to lose perspective and be overwhelmed by the circumstances.

Some examples: my manager unexpectedly left for a competitor, a manager that I liked and with whom I worked well. I have been assigned a role in the company that is not my first choice but I am still obliged to do it well. I read that government officials cannot restrain themselves from spending more than they have, putting our country in financial jeopardy. The news media promotes and applauds immorality that would not have been tolerated a generation ago. I have uncertainty about what form of ministry I am called to. The list of things that can destroy my focus and cause me to question God’s concern for myself and the people around me is seemingly inexhaustible.

To make matters worse, there are some who say that allowing these things to bother me is a sign of spiritual weakness or a lack of trust in God. It is these “Job’s counselors” that pressure people into pretending that everything is OK even when it is not.

This Is why I like the Psalms, especially the psalms of David. David keeps it real. In Psalm 13 we see the man after God’s own heart admitting his own sense of alienation and frustration with God.

We do not serve a God who always makes it easy. Life is sometimes difficult and it is no different for the Christian. In a sense it may be worse for the Christian because we have the expectation that it could be better.

God allows us to go through difficult times. He allows us to go through dry times where it feels like our prayers never make it past the ceiling in the room. God allows the knuckleheads to remain in power both in the government and in the church. Often, he leaves us wondering why.

It is in those times when the promise of Jesus begins to bring comfort. He will be with me to the end of the age (Matthew 28:20). To fix our predicament, God came down to be one of us to feel our pain and offer a solution for it. While this may not make the process easier, it should affect the result.

We can be honest about our struggles knowing that in the end, God will make it right. We don’t have to pretend that everything is well with us. We can be honest. David was.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection Tagged With: abandoned, abandonment, question, struggle

Not so common sense

Posted on October 16, 2013 Written by Mark McIntyre 5 Comments

RIP Common SensePerhaps I am on my way to being a curmudgeon but I am increasingly amazed at how little common sense is displayed by those who have the desire to lead and educate us.

A recent article in World Magazine highlights what I see as a growing trend toward irrationality in our education system. In the past, the focus in mathematics was on getting the right answer. Now the focus is on the process and the correct answer seems to be a secondary goal. We are directly or indirectly telling our children that the process is more important than the result. This is more a philosophical position than a mathematical one.

Politicians think that it is acceptable for the government to spend more than it has. Rules that apply to the common man do not seem to apply to our politicians. These are the best and the brightest and they cannot figure out how to balance the budget and spend less than they take in. I am reminded of Muggeridge’s quip that they have “educated themselves into imbecility.”

On any given day many examples of the absence of common sense can be found in the news. For a country that prides itself in common sense and irrationality, many examples of the opposite of these can be found.

The question is, how should we respond as Christians?

First, we should not be surprised. Paul encouraged Timothy (and us) to expect this behavior:

“But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people.” (2 Timothy 3:1–5, ESV)

The lack of common sense that we see increasing around us is at its core a spiritual problem. In rejecting God and his standards, they have rejected rationality while claiming to worship it. Chesterton predicted that those who reject the God of the Bible are not in danger of believing in nothing, they are in danger of believing in anything. By rejecting God, their ability to determine right and wrong is eroded.

The proper response for Christians is to understand and live out the gospel as presented in Scripture. In verse 16 of 2 Timothy 3, Paul points to Scripture as the antidote to the cultural decay described in the passage cited above. It is the teaching, reproof, correction and training in righteousness that Scripture provides that can change the hearts and minds and get us back on track.

As the culture around us moves away from common sense, the church should stand out as the light set on a lamp stand to draw people out of the chaos.  But to be that light on a lamp stand, we will have to live out the claims of the Gospel. We will have to understand that the answers that the surrounding culture are providing are either empty or insufficient. We will have to be willing to counter the culture around us.

A word of warning is needed. We cannot settle for a superficial non-conformity. For example, much of the church in the 60’s and 70’s smugly sat back and thought they were doing the right thing by not allowing the hair, clothing and music styles of the day into the church. The focus was on externals and they may have won some of the battles, but they lost the war. They did not conform to the world around them but the non-conformity was in behavior and did not address the important issues of the day.

We need radical non-conformity that focuses on foundational issues of the heart. We need a gospel lived out and proclaimed. We need a church that has been trained to present how Scripture speaks to the issues of the day. We need leaders who are equipping their congregants for the works of service (Eph. 4:12).

But most of all, we need to be honest before God as to our failures and move on in dependence upon Him for strength and guidance.

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Why don’t we do better at this?

Posted on October 6, 2013 Written by Mark McIntyre 6 Comments

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. (Matt 5:43-44)

I love my churchHow different would the world be if the church did this well? We know that in ourselves we are not morally superior to the world around us. But because ofour relationship with Jesus, there is a sense in which we should be. If God really takes up residence in the believer and if God really is working in us, it seems as though we should see progress in becoming more loving. That difference should be observable to the watching world.

Unfortunately, a quick scan of the internet will produce plenty of examples of Christians that are hating their neighbors rather than loving them. James tells us that this type of behavior comes from selfishness and self-focus (see James 4:1). We are poor representatives of Christ when we act out of self interest.

Instead, not are we only to be tolerant of our critics, we must love them. We are not loving the critics when we are speaking hatefully or condescendingly about them. Somehow, Jesus was able to let people know when their behavior was wrong or was in need of change while loving them. The sinners hung around Jesus and did not feel condemned. We should be able to have this same ability to interact with the culture around us. Yet often we do not.

From a Christian perspective, this is doubly tragic. Paul tells us that apart from the work of Christ in our lives, we are born in our sins. We are born in darkness and must be shown how to approach the light and must be given the power to approach the light. There is nothing in us that is superior in any way that should cause us to look down on another. The double tragedy is that our inability or unwillingness to love damages those around us and it damages us.

Jesus tells us that the two great commands are to love God and love our neighbor. We cannot be doing the first well if we are not doing the second. Neither can we do the second well unless we are doing the first. They are tied together.

The challenge to each of us who identify ourselves as beleivers in Jesus Christ is to check and see how well we are loving the people around us. I know that I have much room to grow in this area. I can be petulant, self absorbed and insensitive to the needs of the people around me. On any given day I can find many examples of my lack of love. Yet, I can also see that I have made progress as I have grown in my relationship with Jesus.

I am reminded that John tells us that “we love because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19). We need to approprite and appreciate God’s love for us before we can do an adequate job of loving others. There is a gap between how we are loved and how we perceive how we are loved. Spiritual growth closes that gap and puts us in a position to better love others.

It seems to me that this answers the question of why we don’t do better at loving others. I fail to love others when I fail to appreciate how much I am loved by God.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection Tagged With: hate, Love

Slow to anger

Posted on September 30, 2013 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

The prophet Nahum tells us

The Lord is slow to anger and great in power, And the Lord will by no means leave the guilty unpunished (Nahum 1:3)

Anger warning

We misrepresent God by being quick to anger rather than slow. Many examples of harsh comments on blog posts and angry rants by those who claim to be Christian can be found on the internet. I have been sent YouTube links showing sermons by pastors condemning people for grievous sins such as women wearing pants or using any version of the Bible other than King James. When Christians behave in this way, we lend support to the view of God as an angry deity who can’t wait to mete out punishment on sinners.

This is not the picture of God that we see in Jesus. Jesus was called a “friend of sinners.” The bottom rungs of society flocked to him and enjoyed being around him. Why? Perhaps because he was slow to anger and interacted with those people with grace and acceptance.We would do well in imitating Jesus in this.

I am too often quick to anger, especially when my pride has been assaulted. There have been many emails and a few blog posts that I’ve had to delete because my response to a situation was in anger rather than grace. There have also been some emails that I should have deleted, but didn’t which caused me some trouble. My anger accomplishes nothing good.

Nahum reminds us that being slow to anger does not mean that the knuckleheads will get away with anything.  Notice that he tells us that God will not let the guilty go unpunished. Rather than responding in anger, the fact that the guilty will not go unpunished should spur us to prayer on their behalf. God is slow to anger and is longing for the guilty to repent. We should share in that longing rather than looking forward to their punishment.

It seems to me that if we want the world to allow us to confront their sin, we should first learn to confront our own sin. When we allow God to displace our anger and replace it with love and grace, then the world will know that our message is one that should be heeded. We will then have the evidence to show that the Gospel is indeed good news.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection Tagged With: anger, guilty, punishment

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