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There is a way that seems right to a man

Posted on January 17, 2016 Written by Mark McIntyre 1 Comment

right wrongThere are very few Christian believers that would argue that the Bible is not important. It is part of our spiritual DNA to hold Scripture in high esteem. But do we really understand how vital it is to read and study Scripture on a regular basis?

One of the reasons it is important to read the Bible is highlighted in the verses from Proverbs quoted below. Left on our own, we are sure to go wrong. We need an outside perspective to keep us on track.

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.” (Proverbs 14:12, ESV)

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.” (Proverbs 16:25, ESV)

“Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the heart.” (Proverbs 21:2, ESV)

A story from my past illustrates the need for perspective. When I was in my 20’s, I often rode my bicycle. The friends I rode with liked to go fast and I held my own when riding with them. As a result, I thought I would try my hand at racing. So I got my USCF license and registered for my first and only race.

The race was a multi lap event around the streets of Crystal Lake, Illinois. I learned that I was not prepared to compete with real racers. The leaders blew past me on the second or third lap. I was going to be a safety hazard for the riders who were much faster than me so I dropped out of the race. On that day, I got an unwanted dose of reality that gave me more accurate knowledge about my ability to race bicycles.

In my spiritual life, I can suffer from the same lack of perspective. I can think that I am doing very well, when I am not very well at all. There is a way that seems right to me, but I often find that it is not just a little off track, it is going in the wrong direction entirely.

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This is one of the reasons why Bible reading is so important. When I read about the failures of the Patriarchs and realize that I have similar tendencies, I am receiving instruction about the right way to go. When I read the Sermon on the Mount and understand that not only will I be judged for my actions, but for my motivations, I learn how far short I fall from God’s standard. Any time that I begin to think that I have arrived, a small dose of Scripture is sufficient to bring me back to reality. Consider it spiritual smelling salts.

These verses should also inform us that because of our inclination to go wrong, a healthy dose of self-doubt regarding our ability to understand and apply the Bible is advisable. Our first parents displayed the ability to distort what God said and if we are honest, we will admit that we share this with them. It is our nature to hear what we want to hear and avoid the rest.

All that is the bad news. The good news is that the Bible is able to break through my propensity to go wrong and set me on the right path. As the writer of Hebrews tells us:

“For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” (Hebrews 4:12, ESV)

God promises that if we read the Bible and are open to its instruction we will move from sure to go wrong to sure to go right.

Filed Under: Bible Reflection Tagged With: Bible, right, Scripture, way, wrong

Being right or being loving . . .

Posted on March 28, 2015 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

rightIt seems to me that if we are forced to make a choice between being right (winning the argument) and being loving, we should always chose the latter. Unfortunately, this has not always been the case with the Christian Church.

John 13:35 records Jesus as telling us that love is to be the defining characteristic of his followers. But love is not the first characteristic that comes to mind when those outside the church think of those of us inside. They think of us as judgmental, argumentative and coercive. They think of us this way because too often we have been judgmental, argumentative and coercive. We need to be honest about our failings in this regard and seek to do better.

The point is that we may pretend that we are better than those outside the church, but that is not true. We may pretend that we have better understanding of the world than those outside the church, but that is also not true. We are fumbling through life like the rest of humanity.

This is not to say that we don’t have answers. But any answers we have are those that God has given to us. They were given to us because God loves us, not because we are any better or any more deserving. If we get a good grade on the test, it is only because the Teacher gave us the answers.

What would happen if believers did the following?

  • Spent more time listening to our neighbors’ and coworkers’ stories and less time pushing our agenda.
  • Served others rather than argue with them.
  • Admitted our own inability to live up to Scriptural standards and our tendency to become smug, judgmental and coercive.
  • Prayed for a proper sense of humility.
  • Invited non-Christians to critique how well we represent Jesus.
  • Got past our discomfort in being around people who come from a different point of view and tried to get to know and understand them.

It seems to me that if we did a better job of loving our neighbors, we would be better representatives of the Christ that we claim to follow.

My observation is that most people realize that they don’t have all the answers and distrust people who act as if they do. Christians don’t have all the answers. We only have one answer and that is Jesus himself. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life (John 14:6), we are fumbling along trying to follow that way and must admit that we often get it wrong.

So let’s stop focusing on being right and focus on being loving. The God we claim to worship is big enough to show others where they are wrong and he will do it in a far better and more healing way than we ever could.

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