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On Endurance

Posted on June 28, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

The opening verses of James are familiar to anyone who has been in the church for a while. But when we slow down long enough to consider them closely, we have to ask some questions.

“Consider it a great joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you experience various trials, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.”

James 1:2–4, CSB

The first thing that I notice is that we are commanded to have great joy when experiencing trials. This is counterintuitive in that we are conditioned to avoid trials. I know that I am more inclined to pursue comfort rather than trials.

It is interesting to me that this is a command. We are not encouraged to try and have joy. He does not say we might have joy eventually. James is saying that we need to choose joy in the circumstance. How is that even possible?

Regular readers of this blog will probably see a pattern here because again it comes down to trust. Do I trust God enough to be able to have joy when my circumstances militate against joy? Do I trust that nothing takes place outside of God’s superintendence? Do I trust that God will somehow get me through the difficulty?

James gives us a reason for considering trials as a means of having joy. He tells us that the trials will produce endurance.

The way I have historically understood this is that I need to step back and take a long term view of the situation and see that I will grow as a result of the trial. And while this is true, I still find it hard to have joy in the necessity of enduring the trial. “Grin and bear it” is the best I can do on my own.

I am finding that God is using my circumstances to teach me the lesson that I am not in control of my circumstances. Or, at least, I have very limited control over them, and even my limited control is a gift from God.

The verb translated consider carries the idea of thinking it through and coming to a conclusion. This is far different than a snap reaction to our trials. I think that James is encouraging us to slow down our reaction and think it through to determine the correct response.

Did you notice that not only should we think of joy when we encounter trials, we should think it to be a great joy.

Yup. I will need a little help with that.

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On the need for intercession

Posted on June 26, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

In Deuteronomy 9, Moses recounts some of the history of the Israelites during the time when he lead them. He recounts how angry he was when they rebelled against God and disregarded the message that Moses shared with them.

While Moses was on the mountain receiving the Law from God, the Israelites were having an idolatrous party and they provoked God to the point where God threatened to kill them all, start over, and build a nation from Moses’ descendants.

How did Moses respond? Moses tells us:

“I fell down like the first time in the presence of the Lord for forty days and forty nights; I did not eat food or drink water because of all the sin you committed, doing what was evil in the Lord’s sight and angering him.”

Deuteronomy 9:18, CSB

The next verse gives the reason why Moses interceded for the Israelites:

“I was afraid of the fierce anger the Lord had directed against you, because he was about to destroy you. But again the Lord listened to me on that occasion.”

Deuteronomy 9:19, CSB

What strikes me is that rather than take God up on his offer to be the head of a new nation, Moses gets on his face before God and pleads for the welfare of the Israelites who have rejected both God and Moses.

Rather than seeking the harm of those who rejected him, Moses pleaded for their welfare. Elsewhere it says of Moses:

“Moses was a very humble man, more so than anyone on the face of the earth.”

Numbers 12:3, CSB

Moses didn’t let his pride get in the way of fulfilling his role as leader of the Israelites.

In my previous post, I spoke of loving enemies. Moses gives us a fine example of how this is done. He loved his enemies by pleading for them before God.

We should do the same. Perhaps a prayer of intercession would be better than an angry post. Perhaps I should be more concerned about a person’s standing before God than what they said to me or about me. Perhaps I should plead for their forgiveness rather than remind God of how evil they are.

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Going with boldness

Posted on June 24, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

“Know therefore today that he who goes over before you as a consuming fire is the Lord your God.”

Deuteronomy 9:3 (ESV)

When the Israelites were to enter the promised land of Canaan the first time, they should have been bold and gone up as instructed. Instead, they carefully evaluated the circumstances and figured out that they were unable to conquer the residents and therefore they resisted Moses’ instructions.

After 40 years of wilderness wandering as a punishment for their unbelief and disobedience, when Moses spoke the words quoted above, the Israelites had a second chance to enter into the land.

Even though the task was still daunting, they were to go with boldness because their God is a consuming fire and God will go before them. Without God’s help and provision, the task would be impossible.

How does this apply in 2024?

I am reminded that God asks us to do all sorts of things that seem impossible to do. I will focus on one.

Jesus commands us to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44). Yes, it is a command, not merely a suggestion.

I cannot do that on my own, I need the Holy Spirit to be working in my heart to even be open to the idea of loving my enemies.

My observation of the rest of humanity demonstrates that others share this difficulty. One must look no further than a typical social media feed to see that most of us, rather than looking for ways to love our enemies are instead looking for justification to hate them.

This ties together for me because our God will not call us to do anything that he will not empower us to do. He is the consuming fire that will make a way for us to accomplish what he commands.

I can love the one who speaks lies about me. I can love the one that knowingly or unknowingly seeks to do me harm. I can do this only because God will empower me to do it.

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Triangular Communication

Posted on June 21, 2024 Written by Mark McIntyre Leave a Comment

In some social systems (families in particular) it is customary to participate in triangular communication. I grew up in such a family and have much experience with this ineffective communication style. In my family, this type of communication was the go-to means of passing on information, especially when there was a need to confront an issue.

Triangular communication is where A wants to get a message to B, but rather than talk to B directly, A sends the message through C. Not only is it inefficient, this type of communication tends to be destructive to all parties concerned.

There are several reasons why triangular communication is destructive. Here are some that come to mind:

  • When the message is passed through an intermediary, the message may be changed in subtle or significant ways. This adds confusion on top of the hurt that already exists.
  • It involves the third party who didn’t need to be in the middle of the dialog. It spreads the hurt to another who should not be involved.
  • It is dismissive of the one who is to receive the message. It communicates the message that the recipient is not worth the effort to contact directly.

So this means of communication is not good and should not be practiced between humans.

But on my bike ride this morning, I thought of one instance where triangular communication is beneficial. That is when the third party is God.

It is never a bad plan to bring the issue to God before confronting another human. Here are some reasons why I hold this opinion:

  • If my anger is inappropriate or out of proportion to the offense, God understands and allows me to vent my frustration in prayer. The Psalms have many instances of this type of prayer. I have an outlet for my anger and frustration that doesn’t damage my human relationships.
  • Only God can change hearts. If the other person is a believer and in relationship with God, I can trust God to convict that person in his own time and in his own way.
  • God loves the other person perfectly and he is the only one who can confront in perfect love. No matter how objective I try to be, my confrontation is always tainted with self-interest.

It is a good idea to spend time in prayer before confronting a friend or family member. While praying, it would be beneficial to ask God to reveal any ways that I have contributed to the perceived offense. My guess is that if I pray in this way, when I do finally confront, I will be much closer to having the kind of love that God has when he confronts.

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